Hikaru9 said:I think you maybe onto something. I spoke to Ian from Progressive this morning. I repeated my testimony to him, so he could record it. Apparently he had already spoken to the witnesses before calling me since he knew their names and other details. I faxed him a copy of the police report, and I thought all was going well until he said... that they'll try to reach D. Donahue; however, if they can't hear his side of the story, Progressive might not pay me anything.
When I tried calling D. Donahue after that I got his voicemail right away which probably meant that the phone was turned off. I thought I'd try calling Mrs. Donahue in Ohio to see if she had a physical address for this guy. I appreciated how she was genuinely interested in my well-being. She told me that she might have a P.O. Box for Donny somewhere which she could attempt to locate if I gave her a few minutes. Interestingly she added (although I never asked) that, "Donny is the oldest, but he never acts his age. My other son, Alan, gets upset everytime we get pulled into whatever trouble Donny has caused."
I waited 10 minutes before calling her back. Unfortunately, she wasn't able to find the listing, but she was happy to share more of her family story: "when my husband was around, he used to take care of everything for Donny. He's spoiled; it's like he never grew up." I felt really badly for her because here was a 56 year old troublemaker running around in Virginia while his 82 year old mother in Ohio who was suffering from a degenerative disease, killing her eyesight, was having to deal with me. She seemed almost happy that she had someone to talk over the phone as she commented that I seemed like a nice person. I thanked her for her time and wished her for quick recovery.
I may hand the case over to my insurance after all, as I never imagined this to be such a headache. I mean... what more could they need? I have my banged up brand new car, eyewitnesses who are willing to testify, a police report, and even this guy's own family has no doubt about it. To say this whole experience has been frustrating would be quite an understatement. Paying $1,000+ isn't such a big deal to me(it's only money), but I am having a difficulty comprehending this guy's thought process, let alone the lukewarm cooperation of the insurance company in such a clear-cut case.
I'll just leave it up to God because I have no time to worry about this nonsense, and I have yet another wedding in three days (my friends). What's up with everyone getting married nowadays? *^_^*
Wow...this is just incredible. You have all this info, witnesses, a banged-up ride, proof, and STILL the cops don't want to help. Even the family knows this guy has serious issues and you can keep a cool head. If this was me about 10 years ago I might have caught a case, but, just like you said, "just leave it up to GOD"...I like the way you handled it. Believe me you'll get some good out of all this nonsense.(yes)