It gets frustrating when people come at you for things you don't write or misinterpret what you do. It's not "attitude". I don't think it's an unreasonable expectation that people read carefully before they post.
Asking clarifying questions without the exclamatory presentation like this, for example:
"What? I prefer to let the car idle down and then I start driving it without going into boost. You should never rush the warm up!"
...is totally fine, in my opinion.
I apologise if my views seem harsh to you. I prefer to help if I can.
Yeah I totally understand....the What? basically meant I really wasn't sure what you meant by "bar racing the engine at high load" I have never heard anybody use that in my 25 years of being around car enthusiast/mechanics before... if you can clarify exactly what you mean by that statement it might help. And no hard feelings here bro. And yes lets get back to the main topic.