OK guys, I made a lot of headway tonight.
Ricktalife, did you never look at the mazda wiring diagram? You have to start from this thread to get anywhere.
http://forum.aempower.com/forum/index.php/topic,20181.0.html
Notice they say with a 1kohm resistor you need to adjust MAF values +15% to run stock.
I think Twistiert/Swirl etc used a higher resistor to reduce the pull down on the voltage so they would be closer to stock without adjustment.
Let me try to explain why. First thing I did was try the bypass with the resistor removed and the car ran fine. So all my wires are hooked up correctly. If you haven't gotten this far, this is where you want to start. Then I tapped the MAF signals with my multimeter and put it in my lap and drove around. The MAF voltage is nowhere near linear, there is a look up table in the PCM for sure. At WOT, it hits 4.0 volts just past 3k rpms. Now remember, I have intake, WGA, and SMIC, so this could be a little higher than stock, but I peaked out at 4.6V around 6k rpms.
So mystery solved, our MAF is 0-5V just like you would expect from a MAF. Now the crazy thing. I hook the AEM back up without the resistor, and it immediately dies. With just the ignition on though I am looking at the readings in the AEM software and it's got 5.96 in, 5.87 out, both peaked, so I measure with the multimeter and it's 8.24V again. I wasn't insane the other night. Here is why.
MAFs work by heating up a wire and measuring the resistance across the wire. The more air that flows across it, the more it will cool down and the lower its resistance will be. In a Mazda MAF, 12V is provided to the MAF and the output is a tap of a voltage divider (if you haven't looked up voltage divider please do so now). A known resistance on the ground side and the hot wire on the voltage side. With no air moving the wire is about 12% of the known resitance, creating 1.47V. When air starts flowing the resistance decreases and the voltage drop across the wire decreases. The nice thing about this is I am willing to bet our MAF is capable of sending higher than 5V if you had some serious horsepower.
A Honda on the other hand, has a 5V source. The colder the wire gets, the closer to 5V the AEM will see, but it will never go over.
Now for the tricky part, some of that "known resistance" required for that voltage divider is actually in our PCM. I pulled out the PCM and literally measured the resistance across pins 88 and 77 (103/76/51/24 also work), and sure as s*** it's 1016 Ohms. I even turned on the ignition without the PCM in the car, and as expected, without that 1016 Ohms, the ratio is no longer 12% but more like 67%, and you get 8.07 volts.
This is why AEM says to use a 1kOhm resistor but you have to adjust the MAF values to have a good baseline. Not sure how twistiert and swirl came up with 1.22kohm, but that's too high. You want to match the PCM exactly. Also 15% as the Miata guys said is too high as well, but they probably just wanted to error on the rich side, or maybe their PCM is slightly different. In fact, maybe it differs from car to car a little bit, but to know exactly, just measure across the two pins. Piece of cake.
The reason I got fuel cut is because, 1.22kohm is way to high so I hit 5v way too early. I was clamped at 5V but our PCM will cut out at 5V on the dot. And fuel cut is a terrible misnomer. It is spark cut. Fuel cut was back when we had distributors and couldn't shut off the ignition. If you look at my logs from Sunday, I was dumping tons of fuel in, and as soon as I hit 5V, it actually spiked up to 130%. Gas was probably dripping out my exhaust pipe, but since it was cold, no backfire.
So tomorrow I will go buy the correct resistors to match, but really you could just tap the MAF IN and leave the MAF OUT disconnected and all would be fine. Altering the MAF is the cheap SSAFC way to tune. We have control over the injectors themselves which is much more powerful. What it does is allow us to clamp the MAF voltage if we want to make big horsepower and not trip the PCM cut. The SSAFC can clamp the MAF voltage too I assume, but then what? They can't control the injectors, so the only way to get more power is to put in bigger injectors and reduce the MAF signal. Our injectors may tap out around the same time our MAF hits 5V, so maybe it's a moot point, but more is better than less.
Well it took all night but my understanding took a few big leaps tonight. I know it's really hard to follow, and I'll try to make legit spreadsheets and diagrams when I have time to help everyone out.