I have an 03, approx 40,000 miles. My wife now drives the car and she enjoys it. She too had to learn how to drive stick. She was pretty intimidated but does just fine after a couple lessons.
Like all the other people have mentioned, the paint is thin and sucks. Another thing to look at is the tires, If they are the stock tires you'll probably end up replacing them soon (I replaced mine at 32K or so). I put on a little wider all-season tire which smoothed out the ride just a tad and handles 10x's better in rain and snow.
Even though the car is 4 years old, I still get people asking me what kind of car it is. It has been mistaken for a Lexus several times (!!?!).
Oh, another thing that bugs me about the car is road noise. It is quite loud, especially on long road trips. The new tires helped a tad, but it is still quite loud in the cabin. If its better/worse than your current car, I obviously cannot comment.
Overall, awsome car, and we love it.