Wow! This is my first posting on this site! I was being nosy and I stumbled on this! Interesting... Well firstly, DDog, I'm sorry about your mishap. It sounds like a very unfortunate situation. However, (and feel free to ignore my advice), from the stand point of the legal system (yay! Law school is finally paying off lol), you and the other individual would be eternally screwed if she ever found this site. It's $518 and a P.I. would cost you another 2-300 that you can't sue for. However, if she found this site, she could potentially countersue for slander, public endangerment, malice, and in light of all the situations that have been going on in the media, it's rare that you would find a judge that would not grant her judgement.
I mean if the girl is a swift and clever as you make her seem, she can easily make this seem like assault contemplation, which could send you to jail. Is it really worth it? My advice to you is to get this removed on the premise that you still have time to. However, if she finds it, kiss your lawsuit and judgement goodbye.
Once again, just the advice of a law student. You can feel free to ignore based on the fact that I might not know what I'm talking about lol!