rules on calling a girl...

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So, I'm curious to know. I met this girl and we exchanged phone #'s. I'm thinking of giving her a call. Is waiting a day enough time to give her a buzz? What's the rule of thumb?

Thanks
 
this thread is useless without pics... :)

but in all honesty, just make sure you have something to say. I gave my number to someone once, and they called me that night at 3 in the morning. I thought that was kinda soon, but oh well. A day should be fine...
 
Well congrats on the number exchange. Where did you meet? How did the convo go?
If it was a bar, and you both were just chatting about nothing then a random # exchange.... call her next time you go out to a bar or club or something and let her know you are going and wondered if she wants to meet you there w/friends or if she wants to meet up prior.

If there was some flirting going on in the convo, and SHE initiated the exchange... call her in a few days to hang out with friends somewhere. If she mentions something about hanging out just you two... jump on it, but with caution. Once you hang out more, you can find out her intensions. If things go well w/friends and she seems interested.... call her again for a date, just you two.

Its always safe to hang out with friends first to get to know them better and see what their intensions are. Jumping into a date could get you a "I am busy", or the date would just be a bit awkward if they accept.

Everything rides on the type of convo you had. Good luck.
 
semms like some has been wondering into the real world and has not hast been sitting by there comp all day........just have somthing to talk about so its not akward silence, first impressions are usually key
 
thanks for the early responses....well here's what happened...she lives in my apt. complex. i had some apt. issues and i ran into her and did the welcome neighbor thing. we had a good 15 min or so conversation and so we exchanged #'s. she told me she jsut moved to town and lives alone. when i offered her my # she didn't resist and gave me hers and she's pretty easy to talk to. so i'm hoping the planets are alighned cause i was thinking of giving her a call to see if she wanted to get some coffee or a bite to eat.
 
Call her a day later and ask her if she wants to cruize the town, show her a few hot spots, and offer to stop for food as well. If anything, she'll thank you for the offer. Just don't mention the 'date' word unless she brings it up and you should be fine.

just my advice.. I've made a TON of friends that way.
 
What I f'kn hated was when I would call up a girl and suggest that we maybe get together sometime. I would find out what she would be interested in doing and then I would suggest that we went to do it sometime. But they still wouldn't get a frikin' clue until I said, "what are you doing this Friday?"
 
Rules:
-Night of exchange of #'s - call, wait until she pics up... hang up
-Next day during the day - call, leave a message but don't say anything
-That night - call, pretend you are a pizza delivery guy trying to find the customer
-Later that night/early morning - call her and tell her that she has a secret admirer - use a fake voice
-Next day - call her and invite her for some wine and sex

Works every time
 
(rlaugh)yup, sure does!!!


Since she's new to town, chances are she prob. doesn't have many people to hang out with. Your own idea is the best one I've read in this thread so far. She may not be a coffee type of person, though. Everyone eats, so use that. Invite her to lunch.
 
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you missed your time to call. should have been as soon as she was out of your line of sight.
 
just call her and use a napolean dynomite sound board....tell her abouot chicken tallons and dont forget to tell her to vote for pedro! then later in the day call and say whats up shel want to hang out then!who wants to keep being called by sound boards...seriously!
 
cbcbd said:
Rules:
-Night of exchange of #'s - call, wait until she pics up... hang up
-Next day during the day - call, leave a message but don't say anything
-That night - call, pretend you are a pizza delivery guy trying to find the customer
-Later that night/early morning - call her and tell her that she has a secret admirer - use a fake voice
-Next day - call her and invite her for some wine and sex

Works every time
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Hahaha, so THAT'S how to do it... dammit, I've been taking the wrong approach, thanks for the tip.:p
 
Since you know where she lives, just invite yourself in. Open windows work well with this approach. Just chill on the coach until she arrives. Chicks dig this trust me, it shows that you won't allow anything (locked doors, restraining orders) to stand in the way of true love.
 
pro5maniac said:
just call her and use a napolean dynomite sound board....tell her abouot chicken tallons and dont forget to tell her to vote for pedro! then later in the day call and say whats up shel want to hang out then!who wants to keep being called by sound boards...seriously!
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Worst idea ever..... (lol)

I would use the "show you around" town bit. Tell her you know a good place to get pizza (or something like that). It has to be a shop that is only local. Take her there, get a bite to eat, chat.

....... then take her back to your place and put in a porno, and fake its a real movie. Pop popcorn and everything. As Chapelle would put it, it would be another "great momen in hook up history". Ok j/k just take her out to eat.
 
CasopoliS said:
Worst idea ever..... (lol)

I would use the "show you around" town bit. Tell her you know a good place to get pizza (or something like that). It has to be a shop that is only local. Take her there, get a bite to eat, chat.

....... then take her back to your place and put in a porno, and fake its a real movie. Pop popcorn and everything. As Chapelle would put it, it would be another "great momen in hook up history". Ok j/k just take her out to eat.
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well i said it jokingly cause we did that to this we we disliked in hs...it was funny...and then followed up with a arnold schwarztinager(sp?) sound board and finished it off with a full metal jacket soudn board...childish yes...funny yes...would i do it again yes!
 
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