boostisgood
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- 1988 FC3S TII
What I mean is this. Do you belive in Karma ? Or Luck? Or fate even?
So, from a recent post, you all know I lost my Uncle a month ago, lost Aprils grandfather a 3 weeks to the day after my uncle, and as of Friday, April and I have split up. She has not been home all weekend, staying at her grandmothers.
Well, we have not really talked much since then, and I know we will have to, so we can sort out whats going with her, staying here ect ect.
I decided to go out last nite just down to the local bar, so I didnt have far to walk. My buddy called out of the blue, not knowing what was going on, so we decided to hit our old hot spot down in South Side. I got there first, and was greeted by the owner and handed my beer. The place was not terribly busy for a Saturday nite, and I noticed a blonde sitting at the end of the bar. I thought it was one of the girls I was friends with who used to bartend there, so I walked down to that side of the bar.
I stopped dead in my tracks. It was not my old friend but this beautiful woman sitting there, smiling at me with true kindness in her eyes. She was genuine.
I said hello, and Mike (the owner) introduced her as his new tender, Shannon. She was really cool, listened to me and Mike catch up, and my buddy when he came in. Like I said they were not busy at all. So we all sat around and shot the poop, and when the subject of April came up, she was seriously concerned about me.
Now, in all this conversation, she said she was finishing up SCHOOL for Nursing (Mind you there is a large shortage of nurses here in Pa and they make uber money) she is not really into going out and living the party girl life. She Loves cars (HAS a pretty sweet 240 she wants to swap an sr20 into) her grandparents live 2 blocks down from me, we know alot of the same people went to the same schools and so much more I cant even remember now.
Anyways, the down side, she is 22 Im 32 (not that its a BIG deal to me, Im just leery about younger women and thier need to party too much). We both just got out of long term relationships. We both goto school (not much time for social life)
It just seemed that we clicked though. There was a connection there, and I could tell she felt it too. I know I just broke up with my Fiance 2 days ago, but its just too ******* weird that the woman that Is my dream woman was sitting there.
Short of the long, buddy calls that I have not talked to in a few weeks, he said lets go to the bar, I walk in, stunned by the woman sitting there. We hit it off, clicked whatever you wanna call it. None of this planed by me, though about by me, not looking for anyone ect ect. Just wierd to me. Karma I guess.
I dont plan on pursueing anything with this woman, even though she did give me her #, Im just going to sit back for a while, play it safe. I will be friends with her, and not let myself get into a relationship for a long while. I need time for just me and my son.
Wow, all I can say is wow.
So, from a recent post, you all know I lost my Uncle a month ago, lost Aprils grandfather a 3 weeks to the day after my uncle, and as of Friday, April and I have split up. She has not been home all weekend, staying at her grandmothers.
Well, we have not really talked much since then, and I know we will have to, so we can sort out whats going with her, staying here ect ect.
I decided to go out last nite just down to the local bar, so I didnt have far to walk. My buddy called out of the blue, not knowing what was going on, so we decided to hit our old hot spot down in South Side. I got there first, and was greeted by the owner and handed my beer. The place was not terribly busy for a Saturday nite, and I noticed a blonde sitting at the end of the bar. I thought it was one of the girls I was friends with who used to bartend there, so I walked down to that side of the bar.
I stopped dead in my tracks. It was not my old friend but this beautiful woman sitting there, smiling at me with true kindness in her eyes. She was genuine.
I said hello, and Mike (the owner) introduced her as his new tender, Shannon. She was really cool, listened to me and Mike catch up, and my buddy when he came in. Like I said they were not busy at all. So we all sat around and shot the poop, and when the subject of April came up, she was seriously concerned about me.
Now, in all this conversation, she said she was finishing up SCHOOL for Nursing (Mind you there is a large shortage of nurses here in Pa and they make uber money) she is not really into going out and living the party girl life. She Loves cars (HAS a pretty sweet 240 she wants to swap an sr20 into) her grandparents live 2 blocks down from me, we know alot of the same people went to the same schools and so much more I cant even remember now.
Anyways, the down side, she is 22 Im 32 (not that its a BIG deal to me, Im just leery about younger women and thier need to party too much). We both just got out of long term relationships. We both goto school (not much time for social life)
It just seemed that we clicked though. There was a connection there, and I could tell she felt it too. I know I just broke up with my Fiance 2 days ago, but its just too ******* weird that the woman that Is my dream woman was sitting there.
Short of the long, buddy calls that I have not talked to in a few weeks, he said lets go to the bar, I walk in, stunned by the woman sitting there. We hit it off, clicked whatever you wanna call it. None of this planed by me, though about by me, not looking for anyone ect ect. Just wierd to me. Karma I guess.
I dont plan on pursueing anything with this woman, even though she did give me her #, Im just going to sit back for a while, play it safe. I will be friends with her, and not let myself get into a relationship for a long while. I need time for just me and my son.
Wow, all I can say is wow.
