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rules on calling a girl...
- Thread starter ARunto
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mazpro said:so got a date for this weekend?
not yet but i'm working on it
as for pics i was j/k if i did post some they would be rated G
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- '07 Mazda3, True red
rated g...what is she a cartoon???
derrick1623 said:rated g...what is she a cartoon???
lol...ok how about pg-13? is everyone of age? or do i have to check ID's?
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I'm this much...
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simdrew said:Yeah, I made the mistake of giving a girl my number once. My bro pointed out it had to be the other way around.
Why do guys still insist on living in the stone age when it comes to stuff like this?? If you're into a girl, go ahead and give her your number. She may be totally into you too, but is too shy to indicate this right then. She might feel more comfortable talking to you on the phone a bit first. I mean, everyone will say things on the phone that they may never say in person (at least initially).
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Chances that this girl's number will lead to anything long term is about 1 in 10, and even if it is that 1 in 10 and it becomes marriage, there is then a 1 in 2 chance that it will fall apart and you will lose half your money plus your legal fees, so in essence you will lose more than half of what you have, plus all the money you lost during the dating/wedding phase.
So, a 10% chance you get by step one, and then a 50% chance you stay for life, so there is only a 5% chance that calling this girl will be lead to something good for you for the remainder of your life.
Save your time and your money, don't become a free meal-ticket for that girl. Instead of calling that girl, call an older man in your neighborhood or a male teacher and ask him how his life is going. All the older guys I know like teachers I've had or parents of my friends, guys that are 55 and older are telling me the same story; don't do it. It just turns to crap no matter what you do. They'd rather be independent. At best it's a tedious bore. At worst a living hell with financial ruin thrown in for good measure. The problem is that when you're young, you just naturally fall into this mind set where your whole self image is based on how women regard you, and so you spend all your money and energy trying to make yourself acceptable to them. Then later in life the shine wears off and you finally realize that you've wasted yourself on a bunch of crap.
A huge percentage of girls are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and psychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase. Even already you are falling into their games, wondering how many days you should let go by before you call, screw that b****, let her buy her own food, pay for her own movie and pay her own house/car payments. Call an older man in your neighborhood (and make sure his wife is not home when you call), he will tell you the truth, and after he tells you the truth, you will never ever even think of calling this girl you currently seem interested in. Or if you're too embarrassed to call an older man in your neighborhood, just call 1-800-Flowers and buy your mother a nice bouquet of roses, she will never ever backstab you, drag you to court and take half your money away and play mental games or phone games with you.
So, a 10% chance you get by step one, and then a 50% chance you stay for life, so there is only a 5% chance that calling this girl will be lead to something good for you for the remainder of your life.
Save your time and your money, don't become a free meal-ticket for that girl. Instead of calling that girl, call an older man in your neighborhood or a male teacher and ask him how his life is going. All the older guys I know like teachers I've had or parents of my friends, guys that are 55 and older are telling me the same story; don't do it. It just turns to crap no matter what you do. They'd rather be independent. At best it's a tedious bore. At worst a living hell with financial ruin thrown in for good measure. The problem is that when you're young, you just naturally fall into this mind set where your whole self image is based on how women regard you, and so you spend all your money and energy trying to make yourself acceptable to them. Then later in life the shine wears off and you finally realize that you've wasted yourself on a bunch of crap.
A huge percentage of girls are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and psychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase. Even already you are falling into their games, wondering how many days you should let go by before you call, screw that b****, let her buy her own food, pay for her own movie and pay her own house/car payments. Call an older man in your neighborhood (and make sure his wife is not home when you call), he will tell you the truth, and after he tells you the truth, you will never ever even think of calling this girl you currently seem interested in. Or if you're too embarrassed to call an older man in your neighborhood, just call 1-800-Flowers and buy your mother a nice bouquet of roses, she will never ever backstab you, drag you to court and take half your money away and play mental games or phone games with you.
hahah I love it. from a guy with no post count too. Sounds like some girl wiped you dry (or wiped your dad dry) and now you hate women. Great post though.
I will be brave enough to say this.... I would be a loney loney man without my girl. Of course I have looked back at all the money I have spent because I am with her, and yes the number is high...but if I grew old with nobody I would be a grumpy old man probably bitter and stubborn at the world. If I grow old with my girl I will be a grumpy old stubborm man with a woman that will tell me to just shut up, give me a slice of pie, and hold me on the couch as we watch the news. And by news I mean porno.
I will be brave enough to say this.... I would be a loney loney man without my girl. Of course I have looked back at all the money I have spent because I am with her, and yes the number is high...but if I grew old with nobody I would be a grumpy old man probably bitter and stubborn at the world. If I grow old with my girl I will be a grumpy old stubborm man with a woman that will tell me to just shut up, give me a slice of pie, and hold me on the couch as we watch the news. And by news I mean porno.
I instantiated the 50/50 rule early on with my now fiance. Basically I said, this isn't going to work unless we are both puting the same effort. I'll pay for things sometimes as long as you pay other times. The rule applies to everything, not just purchasing things. If she makes the meal, I do the dishes. Anytime one of us gets out of line we just say "50/50" and that's the end of the argument. Its been working for 6 years now and we're getting married next fall.
chuyler1 said:I instantiated the 50/50 rule early on with my now fiance. Basically I said, this isn't going to work unless we are both puting the same effort. I'll pay for things sometimes as long as you pay other times. The rule applies to everything, not just purchasing things. If she makes the meal, I do the dishes. Anytime one of us gets out of line we just say "50/50" and that's the end of the argument. Its been working for 6 years now and we're getting married next fall.
Yes that concept works well.. getting married this fall.
ARunto said:So, I'm curious to know. I met this girl and we exchanged phone #'s. I'm thinking of giving her a call. Is waiting a day enough time to give her a buzz? What's the rule of thumb?
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