Rant:
What the heck is meant by "spirited driving?" What is meant by "enthusiast driving?" Aren't you supposed to obey traffic and safety laws? If it's raining, snowing or if roads are slippery, slow down. Drive according to weather conditions. What does having AWD have to do with anything? People relying on AWD instead of driving safely? Go slow around sharp curves and bends. Many have speed limits. Seems to me people feel they have AWD they can take bends like they're on a NASCAR track and take off in rain and snow with abandon by what I've read on here. Geeze.
I have a 2003 BMW, Rear Wheel Drive. Never had a problem in 13 years driving in rain and snow. Same with my 2009 Pontiac Vibe. FWD No problems going up hills in snow and rain, even from a stop. I just take it slow.
Going to pick up my Mazda CX-5 Sport 2.5L tomorrow and I refused to accept AWD and it took the dealer almost a week to locate a FWD for me. Saved a ton of money by getting FWD and one less thing to worry about when the car needs future repairs. (I plan on keeping the Mazda for at least 15 years, hopefully longer). Same with not having all the bells and whistles. I don't need the car to put on the brakes for me. I am supposed to pay attention when I drive.
Besides, why buy an AWD car when I may only have to use the AWD 4 or 5 times a year? Pay $1,500 more? No way.
Rant over.
Driving your vehicle based it it's performance capabilities, and your capabilities as the operator. Not "relying on AWD instead of driving safely". It's understanding the handling and traction characteristics obtained by AWD, and utilizing them. I see people spin their FWD cars (or common RWD trucks) in the rain simply because they put too much throttle for their vehicle, based on whatever conditions (dry or wet; and most importantly, that individual as the driver, exceeding a limitation on their car. I pretty much don't ever need to modulate my throttle from a start to combat wheel slip, because my AWD system basically prevents wheel spin under most normal dry/wet conditions. Therefore, I don't need to drive (accelerate) especially different just because it's wet. Yea, I may slow down at the curve where on a dry day I would not, but that depends on the curve, my speed and the road condition. I don't need to slow my CX-5 down around a curve like a larger vehicle does, so unless there is some other reason to do so, I don't. I don't drive my CX-5 the same way as a pickup truck (esp in the rain) because my CX-5 has different handling qualities than a pickup truck. If someone wants/needs to drop 10 or 15 mph on a curve because of their vehicle limitations or their driving capabilities, that's fine. Often times people are slowing down unnecessarily because they simply aren't ahead of the car (really thinking about what to do next), timid, or have no real idea of the characteristics of their vehicle so they just simply slow down.
"Drive according to weather conditions. " - For sure, however this does not mean that because it's raining you need to automatically drive 10mph below the speed limit. That's just a knee jerk vs critical thinking. Again, whether you need to go 10mph slower depends on the intensity and capabilities of your vehicle (worn tires maybe? worn brakes? poor wipers? towing?)
"Besides, why buy an AWD car when I may only have to use the AWD 4 or 5 times a year? Pay $1,500 more? No way." -- that's the difference between shopping based on marketing, and shopping based on your own actual wants, needs and understanding what AWD actually does for your vehicle. That statement alone implies the very common train of thought that AWD or 4x4 is for off-roading/snow.
"FWD No problems going up hills in snow and rain, even from a stop. I just take it slow." I wouldn't doubt your statement for a minute, as usual you drive your vehicle (or should) in a given situation based on it's performance capabilities vs whatever the road condition or task at hand is.
"I don't need the car to put on the brakes for me. I am supposed to pay attention when I drive." - Yea, and paying attention is more than simply looking out the window and reacting to what you see at a given moment. Being aware of your situation and acting accordingly, because you actually know the factors involved is way better. Slowing down simply because you come to a curve, without actually thinking if you need to slow down or not and why, is very inefficient. It's why you see people speeding up and constantly putting their brakes on, then repeating, because they aren't thinking about the situation and anticipating. Or why there is commonly an unnecessary slow down at an on ramp because drivers don't speed up or slow down to join the highway in a manner they aren't converging with a car already on the highway. It's just a poor process all around.
If I flew a plane like that it would be an accident waiting to happen.