Aren't you way overblowing the issues of a 1st year vehicle? I'm counting 3 things things that C/D experienced. The freezing infotainment, an inaccurate range indicater, and a sorftware update. Do you not have an issue with those things relinquishing a great vehicle to a "poor" reliability rating overall?
Do you find it odd that vehicles from other makes have needed transmissions replaced (including top reliability rated Highlander and Pilot), receive excellent reliability scores? An inaccurate range gauge is worse than a faulty transmission?
Also, dealer service and experience has nothing to do with what we're talking about. Your rating reliability because of an unusual 14 day fix. It took that long because it's rare.
Almost 1 year into ownership and just 2 oil changes for me. Not one infotainment freeze.
Among the many reasons why I bought the CX-9 was because it showed the least reported issues from all the various forums I read. The top quality rated Highlander was my second choice and on Toyota Nation, tons of issues are reported. CR apparently hasn't heard.