Every car has its issue, some more than others. Like I've said before, I do my own maintenance and repair work, and I don't mind getting my hands dirty. A lot of issues that arise can be related back to how the car was taken care of since new.
I do my own repair work as well. If I can build and tune a 400+ hp 4 cylinder, I'm pretty sure I can handle routine maintenance. I'm not basing my judgement of VW off some internet reviews, it's based on real world ownership by myself and friends and family, all having the same problems from a VW car. The R is a sweet car, but there's better cars out there for the money, both performance and reliability wise. Like stated, I'll still take an old air cooled VW anyday, and I'll leave that R behind as well. To each their own...I hope your new VW treats you well...