Update...
After unplugging the the CA-R-PI.136, the randoms mutes have been stopped. I think that even though Pioneer can use the Sony rotary commander it does not work the other way around. Over the weekend, I switched to the Metra Axxess AWSC. Install was simple. The self-programming worked. I tried to manually program the bluetooth buttons but could not get those to work. I think the 3 buttons (speak, hook on, and hook off) dont have any connections to that harness but rather the bluetooth harness above the glove. Per PAC-Audio their's works with the bluetooth buttons if you tap the bluetooth harness and add a few resistors. Hopefully Metra will have something similar in the future.