Well after switching out AEM to the CP-E intake and switching the stock valve with the Forge, here are some thoughts: (disclaimer: I only did some city driving, ~ 30 minutes worth, no high speed revs, maybe 4k max)
I didn't see any noticeable differences in terms of power, but I wasn't really looking for it - just casually driving.
The stock valve leaks boost like crazy, which I would think would lead to a power gain, but I dunno. With the Forge it got rid of a ton of wsssh and psssh all through the rev range.
The Forge sounds cool. It does make a noticeable pssh sound, alot more than the stock valve. I don't see any need to buy a HKS or Turbosmart valve, but I'm no expert in terms of the difference between these valves, especially if you are doing extensive mods.
The CP-E intake is pretty easy to install, it does take roughly 1-1.5 hours.
AEM vs CP-e: no noticeable difference in power. The AEM is a good bit louder though, especially if you hover around 2-3k, you'll get a lot of turbo sucking sounds.
For the Forge, the springs are progressively stiffer. Red the stiffest and blue the softest, with yellow in the middle. I'm no turbo expert so I don't really know what the difference in stiffness means.
I'm waiting on the intercooler, its on backorder.