it has been to 3 with no fix they all looked at the car for a long time to see if they saw anything i was missing and drove it, thats why its cost so damned much. 2 said wheel balance and tried with no fix the third noticed my motor mounts were worn and showed me so i agreed to have them replaced (majority of money spent) and that improved idle noise and vibration, however it has not helped the wheel vibration. i then went back to the third mechanic and he drove it with me in the car and he noticed it so we got it on the lift and looked, nothing is bent (noticeably) and nothing was loose. we inspected the cv axles and nothing looked wrong, they do not make noise, the hubs do not move on the axle (like most do when bearing is bad) he had 3 techs looking at it and none could find any other issues to cause the vibration. however i have noticed the past week or so it has become very intermittent even at 70mph where it was at its worst consistently every time. now sometimes it will start if i hit a bump at freeway speed (like a pothole, not the regular little bumps city freeways have) and when it starts it keeps going that whole trip above 60 but some trips it wont do it at all. i also had to replace my front struts as one froze up but that did not fix it either.
the car has run over a curb (i have a seizure disorder and it was not yet diagnosed) i had a seizure and ran over a curb, bending all 4 wheels, had to buy new wheels and it marked some of the underside with yellow paint (seemed to bend a cross member which i had looked at right after the incident to determine if it would need replacing and the body shop said no. it was still doing its job and just slightly bent (which it is just an inch or 2 up) but i wonder if i did something else when i hit that curb which was not immediately evident until the wheel started vibrating months later. either way now that its intermittent and when it happens it does not seem as bad i am just going to keep an eye on it and get a new car when i graduate in fall (if i can find a decent job with my business IT degreee)